The healing process has no set time limit. You recover at your own pace.

[It's worrisome to know that things are getting worse for her rather than better. It leaves Oak wondering how she's been dealing with the pain during that time frame and if her actions were constructive rather than destructive. Perhaps if she's willing to tell him, maybe he would be able to help her more. Hopefully she trusts him enough to tell him what he needed to know]

If you don't mind sharing, how are you coping with your loss? Have you confided in someone in the past four months or are you handling this on your own?